Tuesday, March 09, 2010

Saturday – Submission/Slavery

Being a slave and a mommy


"You must submit to supreme suffering in order to discover the completion of joy" ~John Calvin

"Being a full-time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs…since the payment is pure love." ~Mildred B. Vermont


Some of Yyou may wonder how mixing M/s with motherhood works for any couple in the lifestyle. shaia's answer is this, If as a Ccouple you become pregnant remember that the relationship you have with Eeachother is NOT over. In many ways, it is just beginning. Think of it this way, caring for the child is another way to submit to your Master. What shaia means is this, it is your Masters child you are caring for, and in this you are saying, what You and i, have created is something very special and a gift we have given Eeachother. In this it is my job to ensure that Your child is well cared for and loved as the childs mother and as Your slave.

Many may now be asking, how do Yyou create a balance, what does the child see, what do Yyou tell them? Well, Master and shaia have not been through much of this yet. However, Master and shaia agree that while they will not see sexual acts, the children will know and learn about Oour take on the lifestyle, meaning, they will see that shaia is submissive, that Master runs the household, in this they will learn to appreciate several different choices of adult romantic relationships, be it vanilla or lifestyle or any other that exist.

As far as what Daddy's Angel sees as of right now, she does see shaia before and after showering naked, because sometimes she needs to be consoled or have a diaper changed. Other than that, she sees both of dressed. She sees how her Daddy and mommy interact, and that there is much love between the two of Uus and with Uus for her. As time goes on, shaia is sure she may naturally emulate one of Uus, and that is just fine. Whatever course she chooses is fine with both of Uus.

As far as rules, there is a lot of leniency with things like chores, because sometimes Daddy's angel needs something or decides she wants mommy or Daddy. This too is also fine. Part of the design of motherhood and slavery is for the slave to bend where needed when it is needed of her. As long as the chores get done each day, there is no conflict between Master and shaia. However if it Daddy's angel's day was rough due to shots, teething, or being sick, the chores are to be done as soon as possible even if that is the next day.

Now that shaia is pregnant again, some things take longer, Master understands this as things are capable of tiring shaia out much faster these days, especially since Daddy's Angel is becoming more active every day.

Hope Yyou enjoyed a peek into what shaia's life is like currently, and perhaps understand that while pleasing Master is a priority, caring for a child is also a priority but within the M/s realm, many see caring for the child as another way to show service and submission to their respective Master.

3 comments:

Alika Hadiya said...

Interestinjg post. My Hilmir and I understand (but we have older children and have had time to learn) the children come first and foremost, even above my Hilmir. Especially when younger.

Pixie's Mommy said...

Perhaps shaia didn't say, or it is not clear. shaia and Reaper want people to understand that Daddy's angel does come first. Just in Oour eyes, caring for Daddy's angel is a way of showing utmost submission and respect to Master for shaia.

Alika Hadiya said...

Ahhhh, alright. That makes it a bit clearer. Thank you.

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